And, no matter what you're religion or family or any other enviornmental influence states about homosexuality, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT BEING STRAIGHT OR CIS! You are NOT offending God, he loves you. YOU DESERVE PEOPLE WHO LOVE AND ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE! There are plenty of theripists and people on the internet who you can talk to, and talk to your other loved ones as well, and if they don't accept you, then find new ones! Look, you'll probably never see this, but to ANYONE reading this, just know that you need to be around others that love and accept you for who you are, not WHAT you are. YOU DON'T DESERVE TO SPEND YOUR WHOLE LIFE LOVING A MAN WHO WILL NEVER LOVE YOU BACK. If not, than break off all contact with him, even though it might hurt.
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If he really is someone who belongs in your life, than he'll learn to accept it. Tell him that you're bi and that you are not any less than him because you like both sexes. I know this sounds like the worst solution possible, but if he doesn't accept the LGBTQ+ community, then he doesn't accept you, and you need to surround yourself with people who do. And if he chooses not to accept the fact that not all people live all life that the bible instructs, then, you should break of the friendship. Actually, girlfriend or not, try to rid him of any homophobia for the reasons mentioned above. That way when you tell him, if it somehow comes to that, even if he rejects you, he won't call you a ?or something. And tell him what you said, judging is God's job, and he gave no one permission to be hateful to other based on the way they choose to live their life. Because believe me, he will likely be happier without all the hate in his heart. Tell him that just because some people like the same or multiple sexes or a person doesn't feel like the gender they were born in doesn't mean that they are any less than straight, cis-gendered beings. And, before you tell him you like him, try to rid his heart of any homophobia. And if they break up, wait until he is over her and happy before you tell him you like him. And as for you're friend, since he has a girlfriend, don't confess your feelings. And even if you do go to Hell for you're sexuality, who cares? Think what you want, but if given the choice, I would much rather live my life as my pansexual self, be truly happy the whole time, and go to Hell, than live out a fake version of me being straight, feel like bull? the whole time, and go to Heaven. If you are kind that should be all that matters.
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I'm not Christian but I know that God doesn't judge others based on their sexuality but how they treat themselves, others, and the world.
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You are amazing and I'm sure you'll find you're true love, whether it be him, another man, or a woman. Sorry if you're friend doesn't love you back.